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Healing From Childhood Trauma: Finding Peace Without an Apology
Childhood trauma can leave scars that linger well into adulthood and affect our relationships, our thoughts, our beliefs, and our...

Abi Sims
Mar 19, 20244 min read
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The Important Role of Safe Relationships in Healing C-PTSD (Complex Trauma)
C-PTSD (complex trauma) develops as a response to prolonged emotional, physical, sexual, mental, and/or verbal abuse or neglect is...

Abi Sims
Feb 27, 20244 min read
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The Silent Battle: Exploring Mental Health Challenges in the U.S. Military
A quiet struggle persists within the U.S. military and has for decades: the battle against mental health challenges. With an increase in...

Abi Sims
Feb 12, 20244 min read
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"Ghosting" Your Therapist: Let's Talk About It
"Ghosting" someone is a term for abruptly ending a relationship without providing any explanation or follow-up communication. It's common...

Abi Sims
Jan 29, 20245 min read
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What is Complex PTSD (C-PTSD)?
Many people are familiar with the term Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) and perhaps even have an image of what they think that looks...

Martha Witkowski
Jan 23, 20245 min read
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The Connection Between Childhood Trauma and Autoimmune Disorders
We've known for a long time that childhood trauma impacts overall health, but within the last few decades, we've come to learn how...

Abi Sims
Dec 26, 20234 min read
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Intergenerational Trauma: Integrating Our Core Trauma
In the last three posts, we explored how intergenerational trauma passes through 3 generations, how the four unconscious themes show up...

Abi Sims
Sep 14, 20234 min read
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Intergenerational Trauma: Core Descriptors & Core Sentence
In the last two blog posts, we explored the science behind how intergenerational trauma passes through 3 generations. We learned about...

Abi Sims
Sep 7, 20237 min read
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Intergenerational Trauma: Core Language Mapping
In last week's blog post, we explored the science behind how intergenerational trauma passes through 3 generations. We learned about the...

Abi Sims
Aug 30, 20235 min read
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Intergenerational Trauma: Four Unconscious Themes
Neuroscientists, researchers, scientists, psychologists, therapists, and other professionals in the research field have know for a while...

Abi Sims
Aug 22, 20235 min read
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Codependency & CPTSD
CPTSD (complex post traumatic stress disorder) is caused by ongoing trauma, typically childhood trauma, that's caused insecure attachment...

Abi Sims
Jul 17, 20234 min read
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Were You Raised in a Toxic Family? (How to Heal)
In the previous blog post (Were You Raised in a Toxic Family? (The Signs)), we looked at specific behaviors that are common in toxic...

Abi Sims
Jul 13, 20234 min read
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Were You Raised in a Toxic Family? (The Signs)
It's common for conflicts and arguments to exist in families; that's not a negative thing, it's a natural part of life. In fact, healthy...

Abi Sims
Jul 13, 20234 min read
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When Mother's Day Hurts
When Mother's Day comes around, it's almost like we can sense it in the air: trees and flowers begin to blossom, grocery stores display...

Abi Sims
May 4, 20235 min read
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C-PTSD: How To Stop An Emotional Flashback in 13 steps
Complex trauma generally shows up in the form of emotional flashbacks- these flashbacks typically present themselves as one of the 4 "F"...

Martha Witkowski
May 3, 20235 min read
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Outer Critic: What Is It & How to Shrink It
In people who have complex post traumatic stress disorder (CPTSD), the inner and outer critic are typically very loud. We previously...

Abi Sims
May 1, 20234 min read
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Inner Critic: What Is It & How to Shrink It
Before we dive into talking about the inner critic, if you need a refresher on CPTSD, you can click here. People who have CPTSD have a...

Abi Sims
Apr 24, 20236 min read
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Toxic Family Systems: The Signs & How to Heal
For the most part, we're able to control who we allow access into our lives. We get to choose our friends. But we don't get to the choose...

Abi Sims
Apr 10, 20235 min read
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The Impact of Emotional & Verbal Abuse in Childhood
Physical and sexual abuse are two of the most common areas of abuse in childhood, and they are also the two most obvious traumas in...

Abi Sims
Apr 3, 20234 min read
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Shadow Self & Shadow Work
Have you ever heard of the term "shadow self"? Our shadow self refers to the part of ourselves, or the part of our personality, that we...

Abi Sims
Mar 27, 20235 min read
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